Tuesday, January 8, 2008

A Matter of Personal Accountability

13 Tough Questions I ask myself before the mirror, and hopefully another person:

1. Have I been honest with myself and those who care enough to ask how I really am?

2. How long has it been since I have done something spontaneous and fun, either alone or with those I love?

3. Am I harbouring anger or resentment against anyone?

4. Have I invested time and energy into the well-being of the people closest to me in my personal life?

5. Have I cultivated the contemplative and quiet side of my life this week?

6. Have I set limits on my availability and have I gently but firmly enforced them?

7. Do I say "yes" too easily? Do I allow myself to say "no"?

8. Have I kept confidences, avoided gossip, and spoken highly of the people I live with, work with and play with?

9. What are my motives for involvement in a care-giving role?

10. Have I taken good care of my physical body by getting enough rest, eating properly and exercising?

11. Have I allowed myself to fail, recognizing that the only one expecting perfection from me is me?

12. Are there people in my life to whom I can turn in times of need?

13. Have I taken the time to address my own problems and needs (or do I consider myself indispensable?).

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